A week ago right now, I was absolutely miserable. Really and truly miserable. And a little bit frightened, actually, by the weird things happening with my eye. (I had originally feared a case of pink eye . . . but it was soon apparent that this was no pink eye we were dealing with.)
Anyway.
I am happy to report that my corneal ulcer has already healed (thanks antibiotic eye drops!) and the inflammation is much reduced (thanks prednisone eye drops!) and I can comfortably hang out in the World of Light once again! I thank you all for your kind words of support and concern. They meant so much to me! I am happy to be back to my “regular life” (although one that will be bereft of contact lenses . . . after 50 years of wear) (ummm. . . not the same pair, of course) with a renewed appreciation for . . . vision. And the absolute wonder of . . . sight. For ophthalmologists and modern medicine and having some “back-up glasses” on hand (even though they may not be all that flattering).
In the meantime, I quietly turned 65 on Saturday.
And I got my hair cut to celebrate!
(Like . . . I really got my hair cut.)
I’ve been planning this for awhile . . . and I thought it was appropriate to coordinate it with my 65th birthday. I’m sure you won’t remember this, but I decided to grow out my short hair when I turned 60 (back in 2019). I had no idea why, but I was ready for something different. I also had no idea WHAT that might look like, exactly, but I knew I wanted . . . something longer. (My hair was very short and very layered at the time.) My stylist and I decided to just start growing out the layers . . . slowly but deliberately, with the understanding that I would find the “right” style . . . eventually. Someday.
And then, of course, the pandemic hit. What BETTER time to let your hair grow, right???? While a lot of my friends decided to grow out their gray during the pandemic, I decided to see how long I could grow mine — all the while looking for new style ideas.
And grow it did!
Mostly because I couldn’t find any new style ideas that appealed to me!
So I tried hard to be a long hair gal. But, y’know? As much as I loved being able to just pull my hair back in a ponytail, I didn’t really like my long hair all that much. I kept searching for alternative hair cuts/styles that appealed to me.
And here I am! Five years later . . .
65.
And newly coiffed!
My stylist (a different one, actually, than the one I had pre-pandemic) and I landed on . . . a layered shoulder length bob. She spent more time demonstrating all the things I’ll be able to “do” with it than she did cutting it. I loved all of her ideas — but I gotta be honest. The chances of me picking up and using a flat iron (I do have one) or a curling iron (I have one of those, too) on a regular basis are . . . pretty slim. When we settled on length, I insisted on “still ponytail-able” . . . so we’ll see where this ends up.
But for today . . . age 65 + 2 days . . . this seems Right.
So I head into year 66 . . . without contacts but with new hair.
And I’m good with that!
“My life is better with every year of living it.”
— Rachel Maddow
Happy Birthday! I think the renewed sense of sight may be one of your best gifts ever and I love the new hair!
Happy Birthday, Kym!! And I am so so so so glad to read that your eye is so improved! But your new hair! Oh man! I love it so much! It is so YOU! Those are pretty awesome birthday gifts… eyesight and shorter hair! XOXO
Happy birthday!! I’m so glad to hear your eye is healed. And I love your new hair style. Looks great!
Happy Birthday! So glad your eye healed quickly. Your hair looks very cute and easy to work with. Hope these are both good starts to a lovely new trip around the sun.
Happy Birthday, indeed, Kym! So happy you also have your renewed sight to celebrate! At 65 there is Plenty of life ahead. Go forward with gusto! Chloe
Happy belated birthday! So glad your eye has healed, what an ordeal.
Hair….I’m on my fourth stylist since covid. Current one seems to be one I’ll stick with. Yours is cute and like you can do different styles with it, should you feel like a change.
Happy Birthday Kym! Your haircut is lovely and I’m sure you will rock that bob just like you rock everything!
Happiest of birthdays Kym. As Bonny said, your healed eye has to be the BEST gift. Thank goodness for modern medicine. Love your haircut as well – it suits you well. I’m not one to fuss with my hair at all (no time, no interest, no patience!!).
Happy birthday!!!! A little late but no less heartfelt. Your hair looks great. I like your glasses and I’m really glad that your eye has healed up. That sounded terrible! Here’s to the best new year with rockin’ new hair and eyes that work!
Happy Birthday Kym! Your hair still looks as fabulous as ever.
Happy happy Birthday! Looking good! And I’m thrilled to hear your eyesight is back to normal.
Happy Birthday, Kym! Your hair looks great and I think you will love that style! I’m so glad your eye has healed. Wishing you the best for the coming year!
Oh, Happy Birthday! I’m so relieved to read your eyes are healing well. And your hair is wonderful! Here’s to another year – all it will bring, and all you’ll bring to it!
Happy belated birthday to you, my friend! Your haircut looks wonderful (you know I always have serious envy when it comes to your gorgeous gray, so I always take your ‘dos as a form of inspiration). I’m delighted to hear that your vision is better and you are feeling so much better, too. Three cheers for modern medicine!
Happy birthday, Kym! And welcome to Medicare 😉 I am so glad your eye is healed and pain-free. I ditched contacts at about the same age due to a recurrent eye infection. So much easier to just put on my glasses in the morning and take them off at night — no cleaning, no solutions, no mess, no fuss. And the glasses styles now are so colorful and fun. Re: hair cut. I love your new do! So flattering!
Happy birthday a bit late! I’m so relieved about your eyes, and know you’ll adapt to glasses in no time. I love shopping for glasses on Zenni and have quite the little wardrobe. And I think your hair looks great. I use a flat iron a few times a week and honestly it takes about three minutes.
Happy Birthday, Kym!!
No contacts ever again??
“Must be ponytail-able” has been my main requirement for decades! I like your bob… have been contemplating a shorter length, myself, but not sure if/when it’ll happen!
Happy birthday, and congratulations on a great haircut (and your renewed vision!).
Happy Birthday! Your haircut looks great!
Happy Birthday, Kym! great hair and glasses!
Happy Birthday Kym. I say celebrate all month. I’m so so glad your eye has healed so quickly. I wonder what you will see with new eyes?! P.S. Your hair and you look beautiful.
what a wonderful way to celebrate 65!!! I LOVE the new haircut, the smile, the glasses … and the attitude 🙂
I think your new haircut looks wonderful and I hope you enjoy all the things you can do with it, depending on your mood. (I don’t have a flat iron but I do have a curling iron and I use that 2-3 times/week.) I’m so glad you had a wonderful (and quiet) birthday and I’m extra extra glad that your eye is better. So, no contacts ever again? That sounds like a big adjustment. I wore contacts years ago but I struggled with dry eye from using the computer so I gave them up.