Most of us go through our lives struggling with something (or somethings) that are . . . well, let's just say they are "leftovers" from our childhoods. Guilt. Shame. Abandonment. Not-being-enough-ness. For me, the big bugaboo is . . .  living with a lack of clarity and uncertainty. Always. If I'm struggling, the root of the issue is going to be . . . lack of clarity and uncertainty. It took a long time for me to understand this about myself, and to come up with strategies that work when I [...]