According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, the word sanctuary means . . . a place for refuge and protection. It is my intention to provide a sanctuary for all of us . . . here . . . each Friday.
Last December, when I was writing my daily Cup o’ Kindness posts, I explained that one of my mantras for the year was . . . Protect Your Peace. And, oh my friends . . . I have been trying to do that. Failing often, I’m afraid. But still trying. (It’s been so much harder than I thought it would be, y’know?)
Anyway.
I’m still here. Still trying. And I’ve decided to build this little . . . sanctuary . . . as a way to preserve my peace. And maybe to preserve your peace, too. On Fridays, I’ll provide you with a break from the bad news. Maybe I’ll give you something to make you smile. Maybe I’ll offer an interesting diversion. Or even some useful tidbit of information. Who knows. But I’ll definitely offer you . . . sanctuary.
So. What have I got for you this week?
Three things. Two might be useful, and one is pure distraction. I’ll begin with the things that might be useful, and finish with the distraction.
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Four Movements to Release Political Stress and Anxiety
If you’ve been here for long, you probably know that I believe (strongly) that movement is good for the soul. (And the body, of course.) And research shows that movement can help relieve stress. So I took note several weeks ago when the Instagram algorithm showed me this little clip from a guy named Jonathan Mead demonstrating 4 moves to release political stress and anxiety. I found them to be surprisingly helpful . . . and you don’t have to do all four. Pick one and give it a try. I especially like the first one and the fourth one, but I regularly do all four when I’m feeling the tension rise.
- Somatic shake (to release tension and stress)
- Cushion slams (to process anger and rage)
- Swaying (to orient your body in space and help you feel safe)
- Standing star (to remind you to focus on your power and what you can control)
Watch this little Instagram clip from Jonathan Mead to learn four simple movements you can do to help you release stress and anxiety:
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Sleeping (a little bit) Better
Back in February, I was having some serious sleeping problems. You may remember that I wrote a blog post asking for sleep advice and suggestions — and WOW! Did y’all deliver! (You can read my post here. Be sure to check out the comments for some really great sleep suggestions.) One of you (thanks, Irene!) mentioned something called . . . cognitive shuffling . . . a technique I’d never heard of before. A quick bit of time on Google helped me get up to speed quickly, and I found that cognitive shuffling worked really well for me. It’s kind of like counting sheep – only a bit more entertaining and much more effective (for me, at least). What I like about it is . . . it doesn’t require an app or headphones, it’s simple to do, and it seems just enough (for me) to break the thought patterns that keep me awake.
Then, last month, I noticed an article in the New York Times . . . all about cognitive shuffling! (That’s a gift link, so you should be able to access the article, too.) If you’re having a tough time sleeping, maybe give it a try? Maybe it will work for you, too.
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Something to Watch on Netflix: The Residence
Tom and I recently watched The Residence, a new series on Netflix. It’s a quirky mystery set in the White House with great characters (especially the main character, played by Uzo Aduba), a silly plot, clever writing, and . . . birdwatching. If you’re looking for something on the lighter side – but with enough intrigue to keep you guessing – give it a try! (I’ve got to warn you, though . . . I had to put down my knitting while watching because the show is quick-moving and you won’t want to miss a thing.)
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And that’s it for this week. I hope you found some sanctuary here today.
At least for a few minutes.
Now . . . enjoy your weekend.
And remember to breathe.
Thank you for these suggestions.
I skipped over The Residence as soon as I saw White House….so you’re saying it’s okay?
I definitely try cognitive shuffling at 3 AM tonight.
I’ve only tried cognitive shuffling a few times, and I seem to get stuck on food-related words, which doesn’t help me get to sleep at all. Maybe I should just give in and have a piece of cake and that might solve the problem. I have resisted watching The Residence because I didn’t want to be reminded of The White House, but I might like it. A slightly silly plot with birdwatching where I have to put my knitting down sounds great!
I love this idea of a weekly Sanctuary for us, thank you for always creating something wonderful for our community. I haven’t heard of The Residence but if it’s got bird watching then we are in! We’ve been watching The Pitt and really enjoying it but it’s almost over and we’ll need a new absorbing show.
Well, thanks once again, Kym, for your thoughtfulness and generosity. I will be looking forward to this weekly Sanctuary. I will be catching up on cognitive shuffling (though thankfully I’ve been sleeping OK of late). I felt more relaxed just watching Johnathan Mead! I’ve seen little blips (not even full clips) of The Residence, and didn’t give it much thought for the same reasons mentioned by Valerie & Bonny, but I love so many of those cast members — and the trailer has me intrigued! Like Carole, we’ve been watching The Pitt — during which I also have to put down my knitting!
Ooh, The Residence is a Shondaland show – it looks fun, and we need fun. Thanks for this bit of Sanctuary.
What a lovey idea! Thank you so much, Kym, for providing this for all of us. I hope you have a nice weekend.
Thank you, Kym, for continuing to be such a great internet friend. I will try all of this! As for standing star, I also suggest Wonder Woman pose. It is very empowering and a mood lifter. Connect with your power! I do this before every exercise routine. I watched The Residence, and I am now watching Ludwig on Britbox, which I am enjoying due to its low key comedy and puzzles. And my new rescue dog is certainly helping me with anxiety.
He loves to cuddle, and when the weather cooperates, we take walks. Please keep the sanctuary safe, and protect your peace.
Thanks for the gift article! I’m usually good once I fall asleep but have trouble with that part (unlike my husband, who is usually snoring within 30 seconds — and I’m not exaggerating). I’m going to give this cognitive shuffling thing a try and see if it helps, as I know part of the issue is that my brain refuses to shut off.
I’ve been doing the cognitive shuffling thing too (after I had wayyy too many weird weird dreams after a few weeks on CBD).
Thanks for the information on cognitive shuffling, I’m going to give it a try!
I really enjoyed watching The Residence, and you are so right about it being fast moving!